A Mother's Love n Palanquin

 

A Mother's Love: A

Lullaby on the Road (with #Motherhood and #Gypsy Culture)

While wandering through the vibrant Vautha Mela, a peasant fair deep within Gujarat, a scene captured my heart. A young Gypsy mother, her voice humming a gentle lullaby, stood beside a makeshift palanquin. Inside, nestled comfortably, lay her tiny child. With a rhythmic tenderness, she swayed the palanquin, creating a soothing cradle for her precious cargo.

As a newcomer to the area, I didn't want to intrude upon this intimate moment. Using a long zoom lens, I discreetly captured a few photographs, forever etching this scene of maternal love into my memory.

The Gypsy community embodies the spirit of nomadism, moving from place to place, setting up temporary camps, and then journeying onwards. This unique lifestyle fosters a deep connection between mother and child.

From the first few months, a newborn begins to recognize its mother's voice. This powerful bond strengthens over time, with visual recognition developing around 2-4 months. Even before birth, a child can be soothed by the familiar rhythm of their mother's voice. Scent also plays a role, particularly during breastfeeding. A child's response to their mother's presence – a smile, a coo, a turn of the head – is a testament to this incredible bond.

A mother's desire for her child's well-being is boundless. A strong emotional connection acts as a shield, protecting a child from life's inevitable challenges. Discipline should be tempered with love and playfulness. Even single mothers can find a strength akin to a father figure, ensuring their child's balanced growth.

A mother's contributions are immeasurable. Her tireless efforts for her child and family are a debt that can never be fully repaid.

Palanquins, though rarely seen in modern times, still hold a place in India's heritage. In remote areas, from the villages nestled within the Sundarbans to the rural heartland, these traditional modes of transport can still be found. Bollywood films often pay homage to this bygone era.

Palanquin bearers typically come from underprivileged backgrounds. In Bihar, for example, they can be found at religious sites like Rajgir and Gaya, assisting elderly pilgrims or tourists navigate the challenging terrain. Their service comes at a fair price.

The story of the palanquin isn't just about luxury; it's about resilience. During monsoon season in Chhattisgarh, villagers once fashioned a makeshift palanquin to carry a sick woman 6 kilometers to the nearest hospital. This ingenuity highlights the enduring usefulness of this ancient mode of transport, proving its place in certain corners of our country.

In the Photo: A Gypsy mother cradles her child in a lovingly crafted palanquin.

Text and Photo by Ashok Karan, Ashokkaran.blogspot.com

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