A Heartfelt Visit to My Ailing Friend, Vijay

 

A Heartfelt Visit to My Ailing Friend, Vijay

Yesterday, I visited my dear friend Vijay, who has been bedridden for a year now. The sight of him lying alone, terribly ill, and unable to move or speak was heartbreaking—something I hadn’t fully prepared myself for. The only solace in this difficult time is his devoted wife, who remains his sole caregiver, tirelessly looking after him.

Vijay is battling a severe illness that has left him in a dire condition. Over the past six months, I have visited him three times, hoping for even the slightest improvement, but each time, his condition has worsened. This visit was especially distressing—his frail body trembled, his hands shook, and he struggled to breathe due to severe congestion in his lungs. I spent three hours by his side, trying to encourage him to speak, but all he could manage was an inaudible murmur. It was deeply painful to see someone who was once so full of life and energy now in such a helpless state.

As I sat beside him, memories of our vibrant friendship flooded my mind. We had traveled far and wide, indulged in delicious food, explored new places, and engaged in deep, meaningful conversations. Vijay was always there for me—offering support, lifting my spirits in times of distress, and strengthening our bond with his unwavering friendship.

Like any close friends, we had our share of disagreements, but time always healed any misunderstandings. I recall one incident from years ago when we attended a wedding far from home. I had recently bought a new motorbike, and on our way back, another friend joined us for a triple ride. It was uncomfortable, and in the process, Vijay’s brand-new canvas shoe got burnt by the silencer of my bike. He was furious, and we had quite an argument right there on the highway! But that was Vijay—straightforward and expressive. Moments like these, filled with both laughter and disputes, are etched in my heart forever.

Seeing him in this condition now is deeply painful. This is the same friend who once believed in me, even when I struggled to believe in myself. We shared countless golden moments, teasing each other, laughing together, and simply enjoying life’s small joys.

Though I have become a blogger, writing about him today is one of the hardest things I have ever done. As I revisit our cherished memories, I can only pray to the Almighty to give him strength and ease his suffering.

📸 In the picture: Vijay lying on his bed
✍️ Text & Photo by Ashok Karan
🌐 ashokkaran.blogspot.com

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